Diana's Ross: Secrets that made the king fall in love....

 

  When it comes to Michael. there"s no doubt about it. DIANA reigned supreme.

MANY women have fallen for MJ too many to count. from plaint to beautiful and everything in between. But we all know Michael's heart belonged to Diana until the day he left this world...

But WHY. What did Diana do for him that

 other women didn't? And for that matter why were men in general ALWAYS falling for her? 

Yes ok, Diana is beautiful, vivacious and slim.  Things that attract MOST men. but many women are so why were men always falling at her feet? And most importantly. WHY WAS MICHAEL falling at her feet?

Since I'm really a very curious person, of course I've investigated this to find out for myself  (Well yeah, ok. I was hoping to use some of her magic with My own man) lol.. But I think I have cracked her code after  long hard tedious research... I KNOW most of you ladies want to know too, so lets chop it up..

Here is the SECRET MANY ppl have been wondering for years because We've all seen MIchael drooling over her and hanging on her every word, and following her x the land, and back. We've seen her break his heart several times, We've seen her MARRY another man after promising to marry him. We've seen him broken and distraught over her. We've even seen her pregnant by another man during his bad tour, and MJ STILL took HER on his tour, still held her like she was a diamond, and still looked at her with adoring love married, and mixed with his pain.

(Diana looking beautiful and adorable, pregnant) standing with Cher and Elton...

Yes, You heard me right. ON the bad tour, Diana was Prego by her hubby, and Michael STILL took her, Still doted on her, Still spoiled her lovingly, and was obviously Still very much in love despite his pain. He treated her so well, some ppl speculated the baby might be his! But point is, She did it for him no one else EVER has. .

Above you see Debbie and Stephanielbe mills. Both really good women. Both loved and adored MJ, both would have given their ALL to be one and only. And both were involved with him. And he cared for both. But again. Neither could measure up to Diana. 

In fact, it's obvious, Diana KNEW this. Back during the filming of the Wiz,  Stephanie accidentally walked into a dressiing rm that had been converted to a private Dressing rm for Diana. As steph came in, Lola falana and Diana were talking, as Diana sat in front of a mirror touching up her make up.  they both got quiet at the site of Steph and lola told her the dressing was now a private dressing room for Diana. She said Steph started to leave very embarrassed when Di (still looking in mirror) called to her.  

"So Stephanie" Diana cooed. 

"Are you mad because I got the part and you didn't?" 

Melba said Steph denied that, although she looked very upset. She turned to leave again, when Diana called out to her again'..

"Well, don't worry about it"  If it wasn't me it would have been Melba or Lola (Falana) 

It was Never going to be YOU hon"

Melba said Stephanie looked like she would cry but just as she started to leave again, Diana called one last time.

"By the way, Stephanie. " Diana waited till Steph stopped and looked at her. Then she added coldly:

" Just Remember _ The Part is not the ONLY thing that's MINE!"   Melba said Stephanie looked confused as the left, but she wasn't confused too long because soon after Michael told her, It was Over, because Diana said she wanted him back, and of course he ran to her arms...

A similar thing happened to Debbie. As we all  know Lisa had been trying for Years to get MJ to divorce Debbie and be with Her. He refused to do it. He never did divorce Debbie for Lisa as Lisa hoped. Flo Anthony talked about all the desperate things Lisa did, to steal Mike away from Debbie. When Debbie was asked about Lisa stealing MJ, she said truthfully 

"Lisa's NOT the one I'm worried about!"

Smart lady.  in 99 Diana was divorcing her homely hubby, and called Michael very upset. she told him, she was leaving Arne and she needed him.  Michael promptly called his staff to get his things together and told his Assistant to cancel his entire week. Debbie said so many times she had seen ppl beg for 5 minutes of his time and could not get it, yet he had cancelled his entire Wk for Diana. she said she was very upset and begged him not to go. She said he almost shoved her in his haste to get to Diana, and she didn't hear from him all week! In fact MJ did not call his wife. He called his Atty from the Airport and told him to start divorce proceedings against Debbie!! and just like that, he dropped Debbie and broke her heart....

Anyway, as promised the SECRET Diana has over over women, is this

Diana KNOWS how to delve into a man's mind and find out EXACTLY what he's looking for!! Most women just guess and hope to find out what he wants. Diana always  been very playful, fun, and free spirited. These are great attractants but more than that, she knows what a man rly wants.  This is why Michael was willing to go against the whole world and even his beloved Mother to be with Diana!  This is why he called her the perfect woman!  

Michael being a super super, super star was always looking for a women he could TRUST! this is why he lost interest in Lisa. because everything they talked about when right to reporters ears! He could NOT trust her. and she was very vindictive. When he refused to take her back, she went to the police in 98 and tried to have him arrested for drugs! When the police contacted him, he offered to do a DT if Lisa did as well. Guess who failed? Then she trashed him for YEARs because he no longer wanted to be with her. Who WOULD??? You've shown yourself to be a complete nightmare!  

But if you remember what he said about Di, you will have a clue. He said

" I can tell Diana my deepest secrets. things I can't tell anyone else!" and she tells me her secrets too..." 

He could vent to her about anything! No one can ever accuse Di and telling his business, or Bashing him, or anything like that. He loved her personality, and of course her beauty, but more than that, he loved that he could tell her anything and TRUST her with it. It was super important to him, that he could TRUST her. 

You might have read in Ebony yrs ago, when They asked Diana why Michael loved her so much. Her answer was VERY TELLING.

she said:  " He loves me because I give him a SAFE SPACE! He knows he can come to me with anything.  He's so burdened by the world sometimes with ppl constantly pulling and fighting for his attention. With me, he can let his hair down, and know that he never has to guard what he says because I'm NOT going to tell! He can come to my arms and find PEACE and a Safe Harbor. I let him know I'm there for HIM...

And THAT ladies is her SECRET. she instinctively knows what a man needs and gives it to him......