Happy Birthday king!!! And the REAL reason MJ left the JW, and His group....

Happy Birthday to the king!!!

His brother ,gave an interview years ago and said that MJ was having trouble with the JW because they had a  problem with his {relationship_ and that's the word he used} with Diana. Being that she was a divorcee. Yes, he also butted heads about thriller everyone knows that, and that he used the disclaimer to get around it, but the REAL issue with them, definitely seems to be Diana. And she appears to be the reason he ended up leaving. (that was covered up_ and you have to research to find it, but you'll find that the JW were sending him mail and telling him to stay away from her, and using the word 'tainted' when describing her!  So this seems to be  the reason he left the J5 and went solo! Diana told him she found Solo artists much much sexier than lead singers! MJ left his group  practically that same week!!   You will find when you begin to study him that most of his actions revolved around her! She was the LOHL, and he made her central to everything.

He would get her advice before career moves, he would have her ok contracts and agreements, he would arrange his sched so he could see her as much as possible. She was his everything! MJ was madly in love with di since he was a young boy, and he had been dreaming of marrying her for years! If you read his mother's book, she talks about what a hard time she had keeping him away from Diana, and how he began calling her his girlfriend and later his wife! His mom said she just thought it was an innocent crush, but it grew stronger and stronger to the point, she realized he really was in love with Diana and she yanked him from her home  (Diana was mentoring him for Motown) She hoped that would stop it, but he told his mom, he would " get big" and come back and marry Diana, and no one could stop him!  He spent years attempting to so just that. Di was the LOVE OF HIS LIFE! and that's why he called her " THE ONE" and " the most important woman in my life"  He called her that so much many mags began to call her that! Yes, she was like a mother to him at one point in his life 12-15 but even then he was in love with her, later she was like a good friend/confidante but he was still in love with her, and began letting her know around this time..  later still they began to date. They had their first date when he was 17, and 2 yrs later she took his virginity.

Yes, he felt a lot of guilt (that's what he was talking about in superfly sister, and ICLHGA , when he said 'I tried so hard to love you, some things take time and SHAME' ... He was ashamed because they were not married but he could not resist her. he goes on to say ' I PLAYED THE FOOL FOR YOU, I BROKE THE RULES FOR YOU!  JUST SAY IT AND I'LL DO IT, _ JUST MAKE THIS DREAM COME TRUE!!!   The rule he talked about was the sex before marriage rule. He felt guilty but he broke it again and again... But this is probably why he began to pressure her so hard to marry him in the early 80s. The dream he was referring to, was to marry Diana in Switzerland. that' had been his dream for years. He was head over heels for her, but she was being harassed by the media ( who KNEW about their relationship and even knew their favorite hotels{ BHH Bev Hills Hotel}, and the {HRH Hard Rock Hotel} In fact, they went to he HRH so often (under assumed names) that the hotel dedicated and decorated a suite just to them! And called it the MJ/Di suite! This is how his mama found out they were together.. So at one point she WAS like a mother to him when he was a kid, later she was a confidante/friend and later she was his lover/love of his life. This is why in MW. he says " Diana Ross is my mother/sister/LOVER  all rolled together in one incredible person! She ticked all those boxes in his life, at different points but ultimately she was the love of his life and the one he fought for year  after year to marry. He said many times how much he wanted to marry her, and how much he loved her, but ppl were not comfortable with it, so they ignored him...

It's long been believed that the reason MJ left the JW's was the disagreements over his music.
And this was certainly a factor, but not the only one, or even the most significant one.
There was definitely tension between MJ and JW's  over Diana Ross ( his main squeeze)
Diana hinted about this in her Memoirs, and in the 80s, there were a few articles about this...

Is Evan Ross the Son of Michael and Diana??

IS HE MICHAEL'S SON???

Did these 2 obviously in love ppl make the young man below? hmmmm....

Diana, looking at her son with Obvious love and pride...I'll bet she's a phenomenal mother.... 

Evan Definitely looks like MJ, no one can deny that......

There has been speculation in the melanated aboriginal  community for YEARS about the paternity of Evan Ross.
Many ppl think he could possibly be Michael Jackson's son. Now we are all aware ( or most of us are aware) that MJ was not the choir boy some ppl believed him to be, and that he and Diana Ross, (the LOHL) were able to carry on an affair right in plain sight due to the refusal of many to see their relationship as anything but maternal.  But is it possible that he had a son with the woman of his dreams? Is it possible that the GOD SON of Michael Jackson is actually another SON of Michael Jackson?

A little back story on the king.....

Well, anything is possible. We do know that Evan is quite light, and definitely looks somewhat biracial. However, we also know that the king has some admixture in him. His father Joe, is the child of full Native American man  (Samuel Jackson) and a half white woman named Crystal King.

Michael already has some admixture which could easily explain Evan's appearance, however, Evan tends to look like Diana's deceased  husband. I certainly understand ppl who claim he looks just like MJ, because at scant bits of time he indeed does. It seems like MJ is very much a part of him, and I know that they were very close. Evan has said on several occasions, that 'he knew how much MJ loved him'. I would definitely agree, MJ loved him a lot, and it was pretty evident to see.

What's not so obvious, is whether Evan is his son or just his God Son. I do know that there was a letter Evan was sending to MJ in which he crossed out Dad, and wrote God father. I will see if I can find and include it. I also know that Evan did a interview with a reporter in which he expressed confusion as to whether MJ was his father or not, I will also include that. As for my personal feelings. 

I think MJ loved Evan and that love came through loud and clear. I think Evan also loved his father oops I mean Michael, and began to emulate him. Also, it should be noted that there is a phenomenon known in psychology whereby ppl who are really close begin to resemble each other. This has even been known to happen to ppl close to pets! But In any event, I've included some of the most salient pics of MJ and Ross, you be the judge....

Evan, interview about MJ, is Michael his daddy?

There is an interview with Evan, and it was supposed to be about how close he was to Michael and how much of a great influence Michael was on him and how he was like a 2nd father to him.

So Evan is talking on an on to a young reporter, rambling on about how much he loved MJ and how good he was to him, and how MJ loved him like a son. He slowly realizes the reporter is staring at him HARD. It was VERY obvious the reporter was wondering if Evan was MJ's son.

Evan looked at him, stopped talking, and said:

"He's not my father!"

Then he thought a second, and said

"Well........I dont' think he is!"

Evan himself was UNSURE!!

That's because he saw alot that went on between his mother and MJ. He KNEW they were getting it on, and HE KNEW IT WAS  POSSIBLE MJ WAS his father...

So is he?  Honey, I don't know.  All I know for sure is that Michael loved Diana more than ANYTHING and I strongly suspect, MJ must have known there was a STRONG possibility, that Evan was his, and that explains why he loved Evan so much, and treated him so well. 

Notice, MJ NEVER took the interest in Evan's brother he took in him. He never spent tremendous amts of time, money and energy on Ross, that he spent on Evan. He KNEW Ross was NOT his, but  (JMO) I think,  he strongly believed Evan WAS...

I still have NO IDEA because I always thought Evan looked like BOTH MJ and ARNE to me, so no idea....

But would love to hear your thoughts....