Diana's Ross: Secrets that made the king fall in love....

 

  When it comes to Michael. there"s no doubt about it. DIANA reigned supreme.

MANY women have fallen for MJ too many to count. from plaint to beautiful and everything in between. But we all know Michael's heart belonged to Diana until the day he left this world...

But WHY. What did Diana do for him that

 other women didn't? And for that matter why were men in general ALWAYS falling for her? 

Yes ok, Diana is beautiful, vivacious and slim.  Things that attract MOST men. but many women are so why were men always falling at her feet? And most importantly. WHY WAS MICHAEL falling at her feet?

Since I'm really a very curious person, of course I've investigated this to find out for myself  (Well yeah, ok. I was hoping to use some of her magic with My own man) lol.. But I think I have cracked her code after  long hard tedious research... I KNOW most of you ladies want to know too, so lets chop it up..

Here is the SECRET MANY ppl have been wondering for years because We've all seen MIchael drooling over her and hanging on her every word, and following her x the land, and back. We've seen her break his heart several times, We've seen her MARRY another man after promising to marry him. We've seen him broken and distraught over her. We've even seen her pregnant by another man during his bad tour, and MJ STILL took HER on his tour, still held her like she was a diamond, and still looked at her with adoring love married, and mixed with his pain.

(Diana looking beautiful and adorable, pregnant) standing with Cher and Elton...

Yes, You heard me right. ON the bad tour, Diana was Prego by her hubby, and Michael STILL took her, Still doted on her, Still spoiled her lovingly, and was obviously Still very much in love despite his pain. He treated her so well, some ppl speculated the baby might be his! But point is, She did it for him no one else EVER has. .

Above you see Debbie and Stephanielbe mills. Both really good women. Both loved and adored MJ, both would have given their ALL to be one and only. And both were involved with him. And he cared for both. But again. Neither could measure up to Diana. 

In fact, it's obvious, Diana KNEW this. Back during the filming of the Wiz,  Stephanie accidentally walked into a dressiing rm that had been converted to a private Dressing rm for Diana. As steph came in, Lola falana and Diana were talking, as Diana sat in front of a mirror touching up her make up.  they both got quiet at the site of Steph and lola told her the dressing was now a private dressing room for Diana. She said Steph started to leave very embarrassed when Di (still looking in mirror) called to her.  

"So Stephanie" Diana cooed. 

"Are you mad because I got the part and you didn't?" 

Melba said Steph denied that, although she looked very upset. She turned to leave again, when Diana called out to her again'..

"Well, don't worry about it"  If it wasn't me it would have been Melba or Lola (Falana) 

It was Never going to be YOU hon"

Melba said Stephanie looked like she would cry but just as she started to leave again, Diana called one last time.

"By the way, Stephanie. " Diana waited till Steph stopped and looked at her. Then she added coldly:

" Just Remember _ The Part is not the ONLY thing that's MINE!"   Melba said Stephanie looked confused as the left, but she wasn't confused too long because soon after Michael told her, It was Over, because Diana said she wanted him back, and of course he ran to her arms...

A similar thing happened to Debbie. As we all  know Lisa had been trying for Years to get MJ to divorce Debbie and be with Her. He refused to do it. He never did divorce Debbie for Lisa as Lisa hoped. Flo Anthony talked about all the desperate things Lisa did, to steal Mike away from Debbie. When Debbie was asked about Lisa stealing MJ, she said truthfully 

"Lisa's NOT the one I'm worried about!"

Smart lady.  in 99 Diana was divorcing her homely hubby, and called Michael very upset. she told him, she was leaving Arne and she needed him.  Michael promptly called his staff to get his things together and told his Assistant to cancel his entire week. Debbie said so many times she had seen ppl beg for 5 minutes of his time and could not get it, yet he had cancelled his entire Wk for Diana. she said she was very upset and begged him not to go. She said he almost shoved her in his haste to get to Diana, and she didn't hear from him all week! In fact MJ did not call his wife. He called his Atty from the Airport and told him to start divorce proceedings against Debbie!! and just like that, he dropped Debbie and broke her heart....

Anyway, as promised the SECRET Diana has over over women, is this

Diana KNOWS how to delve into a man's mind and find out EXACTLY what he's looking for!! Most women just guess and hope to find out what he wants. Diana always  been very playful, fun, and free spirited. These are great attractants but more than that, she knows what a man rly wants.  This is why Michael was willing to go against the whole world and even his beloved Mother to be with Diana!  This is why he called her the perfect woman!  

Michael being a super super, super star was always looking for a women he could TRUST! this is why he lost interest in Lisa. because everything they talked about when right to reporters ears! He could NOT trust her. and she was very vindictive. When he refused to take her back, she went to the police in 98 and tried to have him arrested for drugs! When the police contacted him, he offered to do a DT if Lisa did as well. Guess who failed? Then she trashed him for YEARs because he no longer wanted to be with her. Who WOULD??? You've shown yourself to be a complete nightmare!  

But if you remember what he said about Di, you will have a clue. He said

" I can tell Diana my deepest secrets. things I can't tell anyone else!" and she tells me her secrets too..." 

He could vent to her about anything! No one can ever accuse Di and telling his business, or Bashing him, or anything like that. He loved her personality, and of course her beauty, but more than that, he loved that he could tell her anything and TRUST her with it. It was super important to him, that he could TRUST her. 

You might have read in Ebony yrs ago, when They asked Diana why Michael loved her so much. Her answer was VERY TELLING.

she said:  " He loves me because I give him a SAFE SPACE! He knows he can come to me with anything.  He's so burdened by the world sometimes with ppl constantly pulling and fighting for his attention. With me, he can let his hair down, and know that he never has to guard what he says because I'm NOT going to tell! He can come to my arms and find PEACE and a Safe Harbor. I let him know I'm there for HIM...

And THAT ladies is her SECRET. she instinctively knows what a man needs and gives it to him......

Do you think Michael Mistreated Debbie?

 

 Hmmm. .. Debbie is an interesting character. 

I've always liked her. I felt that she was a good friend to the king, and she had his back..

Debbie met MJ in the  mid 80s. she was an assistant to the Big fat liar Arnold Klein, who later tried to claim his son Prince..

Back at the time, Michael and Debbie became friends and they were fairly close.  In 1994 , He allegedly wed Lisa, but anyone who has bothered to research this, KNOWS that marriage was fraudulent... Although Lisa was doing everything in her power to pretend it was legit.. During this time, Debbie and MJ stayed friends, and although Lisa found out about their relationship, she didn't pay it any mind as she considered Debbie plain and banal.. ..

Weirdly, Debbie was describing Michael as Unique and KINKY at this time, and that's very interesting.. She was also begging MJ to let her have a baby for him. She said she rly wanted him to be able to be a father. 

If you remember the interviews at that time, Lisa was claiming MJ threatened her to have a baby or Debbie would do it,  Well let that sink in. What LEGITIMATELY  MARRIED man would say that to his WIFE??? And he actually impregnated Debbie around this time, but they lost the first baby.

 In 1996, Despite lisa's begging, pleading, trying to make deals to stay tog'r. MJ forced a divorce on her (Yes a fake marriage Still needs a divorce, or ppl will figure out that it's fake!) Debbie was already prego with Prince, and Michael's mom was begging him to marry her for the sake of the baby. She did not believe in out of wedlock children.  Finally MJ flew to  Sydney Australia and wed Debbie.

I read an article by The Detail,  ( She NEVER has her facts straight! ) But in this Debbie article,  she claimed, Michael called Lisa the night he was to wed debbie and she gave her blessings!! What bullshit. He NEVER called her, and she NEVER gave a blessing!  Lisa begged and pleaded for him NOT to leave!  Does it make sense she would hand him over on a platter to another woman??? He had FORCED the divorce on lisa by filing first and only agreed to rescind it, on condition that SHE FILED!  He knew her pride would never allow her to let the world know HE WAS THE ONE who wanted out...

  Detail also claimed, Debbie said she was nothing but a thoroughbred to him! That she got pregnant by being inseminated by MJ's sperm, and never had sex with him. This is also bull, I remember several old intervs in which Debbie spoke of MJ as a great lover who loved to Role play, and have her be the innocent ingenue! She said he loved to play  rough and loved to dominate her...

I think Detail made that part up about Debbie calling herself a Thoroughbred. Detail seems to make up alot of things. I remember wating one of her videos, and she talked about the relationship betwn beautiful Whitney and MJ. And she had a picture of him looking at Whitney so adoringly, and wearing a dark suit and looking very handsome. Problem was I recognized the setting, the suit, and the look. It took place during an award show and he was looking at DIANA, but she had superimposed Whitney's face Over Diana! When I pointed this out to her, (thinking it was just a mistake) she deleted my post and Kept it!! So she KNEW it was a falsified picture!! This is one of the reasons why she has Low credibility...

They had Paris in 1998, but she was a very difficult pregnancy. As a result Debbie had internal issues, and was told she would NOT be able to carry another baby. She was quite devastated. Soon afterward, Michael seemed to lose interest. We all know why, because she could no longer give him what he wanted from her, more babies.. But Detail claimed it was because Lisa was back in the picture, and he wanted to remarry her! lol. She even claimed Debbie said if he loved lisa, she would not stand in the way!!😂 This is a bold faced lie.  It actually came from a Randy Tam book  ( which are nothing but blatant lies, that he pulled from his butt. Detail just repeated that nonsense without an ounce of research.. (shocker..) 

Truth is Lisa tried to get him away from debbie for Yrs. She followed him x the world and threw herself at him at every oppty. When she was sick with Murcury poisoning  right after div. His mom found out Lisa was telling ev'one MJ had made her sick by mistreating her so badly. His mom was appalled. She made MJ promise to take Lisa and find a good doc and help her get well. She also made him agreed to take Lisa with him a few places, and be nice to her. She felt this would help her recovery. Michael agreed but told Lisa then, they would only be going off as FRIENDS, and when she got well, they would go their separate ways. Lisa, desperate to be with him, agreed...

He kept his promise, and did help her find a good doc, and also reluctantly took her a few places but she had to beg, and often involve his parents to get him to allow her to go. (Like Africa for instance) And history tour where he finally agreed to let her go on condition she brg her kids, then Dumped her in 2nd City because  Diana called and NOW wanted to go... 

As for having kids, people can claim MJ wanted Lisa to have his baby all they want but notice, when she begged to give him 9 children, HE TURNED HER DOWN! Truth is, he NEVER wanted kids by Lmp. and he said that live at the Harlem convention.. The baby story was already set to be used before the fake marriage... Detail also claimed Debbie got tired of the whole scene with lmp and divorced Michael. This is completely not true (again)  

In 99, Diana called and she was upset and crying. She said she was divorcing Arne, and needed Michael. Debbie admitted he nearly knocked her over trying to call for his ppl to pack his bags. She said she begged him not to go, but he was not listening. Debbie complained that it was very hard to get 5 minutes of MJ's time because he was so busy and everyone wanted his time. but she admitted the moment Di called MJ had his assistant clear his entire sched and took off to be with Diana in no time. leaving Debbie behind, crying..  He stayed with Diana and entire week! holding and consoling her and letting her know he would always love her, then called his Atty's from the AIRPORT to begin divorce proceedings against Debbie!! Debbie admitted many times she still loved MJ and never wanted the divorce! But just like Lisa, he gave her the chance to divorce HIM or he would do it... This is why ppl think Debbie divorced him. She did not....   

But notice, all that time Lisa spent trying to get him to leave Debbie, but ONE phonecall from Diana did what she couldn't in 5 Yrs!! lol...

But honestly, he did care for Debbie,and she loved him. She was a good wife to him, and it's a shame he NEVER really gave her a chance. I honestly think they could have had a shot, if he' had put forth just a modicum of effort..

As for MJ mistreating Debbie, I think he could have been nicer to her. Like the will for instance, where he specifically stipulates that his Ex wife ( Debbie ) is to receive NOTHING!! Like wow! Michael? What did the woman do for you to say that?  He didn't leave Lisa anything either, but at least he didn't humiliate her by shouting it to the world!! So I think he could have treated Debbie a lot better, and honestly TRIED to love her, now tell me

 What do you guys think???

Heart dont' change my mind... Sad, and true....

Heart don't change my mind 

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The light of Michael's Whole life:  

The Ever- beautiful Diana Ross ...

 

Diana and Michael together, His face shining with LOVE. as always.  He said she was his WORLD and his SOULMATE, and indeed, she was....

This Newspaper titled:  The Secret Love of Michael Jackson, is PROOF, the media KNEW about who Michael REALLY loved and wanted, yet they often pretended they had NO idea!

Heart don't change my mind

The reason I wanted to highlight this video, is because it really showed How Diana actually felt about MJ...

As you watch the video, you will see Diana emulate MJ's dress, hair, glasses etc. She is low key letting us KNOW she is talking about Him. At points, she looks like she's about to cry because she did NOT want to let him go. She loved him! I wish people had just left them ALONE. They loved each other SOOOOOO much, but the constant bullying she received was too much for Diana, and she didn't feel safe bringing their love out in the open... Sadly when Diana broke Michael's heart, and left him, she broke her OWN as well...

In the mid 80s, Diana and MJ went to Ms Jackson to get her blessing. (this was rly important to Diana) Probably because she KNEW how the world would react to the news of she and MJ together. So she was hoping to find an Allie in Ms Jackson. 

Michael told his mom they were going to Marry, and she had a fit. She did NOT like the news at all. She told Diana she was too old for her son, and was 'soiling him' There were lots of tears and yelling, with MJ storming out and vowing to Marry Diana no matter WHO didn't like it. 

But Ms Jackson picked up her phone and called some reporter friends. she told them Diana was trying to marry her Too young son, and that she needed to leave him alone.  Her friends agreed with her, and assured her they would take care of it...

They began to follow Di and try to make a spectacle of her. They were calling her slut, whore, baby fucker etc. They were humiliating her everywhere.  They ignored Michael when he tried to come to her defense. Diana felt the weight of their disdain, and grew depressed. Michael felt her slipping away, and grew desperate.  He begged her not to "Walk away' and to hold on. He truly believed that if they hurried and married, the world WOULD accept them, and it would be alright.

But we all know what happened. She went off alone to find some solace and found Arne's  jack-o-lantern looking self, and seeing him as a way out of all the controversy and disdain, she ran off and married him. Breaking BOTH their hearts... 

Heart don't change my mind was a true and honest portrayal of what she was going thru during that time. She was battling her heart against her logic. She loved Michael, but she had other obligations. Her children, her career, her good reputation. All of which could be negatively affected... 

Notice she says in the song. "How can I walk away if you're still holding on Now?"  MJ WAS holding on, he kept holding on. I'm convinced, this is why he and Lmp never had a chc because he was still holding on to Diana, and working behind the scenes to get her back. Some of the things he did, to get Diana back...

1. Doing I love you, shout outs to her all over

2. flying out to see her and refusing to even answer Lmp's calls

3.  (From Lisa herself to Oprah on 2nd visit) " "He ignored me! and treated me like old furniture! I told him, I'm not gonna be ignored! Oprah... "do you think he used you?"  Lisa, " All signs point to Yes!!

4. He put loving dedications on albums to Diana. He told People Mag she was his soulmate in 1983 and Again 20 Years later, He confirmed that she still was!

5. He not only bought Diana expensive jewelry, and dresses that cost more than the average home!  But he was still with her every minute she allowed him to be.  Her hubby was stashed in Europe, and MJ often spent the night at her home, and even moved in later on!!

6. Notice in Oprah interview of 1993, He got excited when Op asked about the woman who quenched his fire? And who did he immed bring up? - Diana of course...

7. He kept ranting about how wonderful Diana was all over. saying Supeme was his fave female group of all times. And Diana was his fave female singer, Diana was his best friend. Diana was the person he loved to share everything with etc... I could go on and on, but y'all get the point. He was CONSUMED with her...

 Many people believe, or convince themselves that she never loved him,  ( This is completely false. She absolutely loved him... Or they say She only used him to elevate her career

 ( A career  which to this day is  STILL standing room Only, and still top of the line)  Or believe that she groomed him, and sexually controlled him. People say alot of things esp when it comes to POC.  

As Michael put it:  They don't like to see US in love with US!!  He deeply believed that. He resented that when he would tell people how much he loved Diana, He ALWAYS seemed to be blown off, and dismissed. Even when he was saying it everywhere, and putting it on his albums, People  STILL seemed to hear what they wanted to hear...

Diana, must have felt very beaten down. She knew she loved Michael, and she KNEW he was someone who had always and would always love her, but the world can be very cruel. His fans, the public, the media, and even his MOM made it clear, they did NOT want her for Michael. They were cruel, and vocal..

This is why Diana PRETENDED to be like family with MJ. You've prob. heard her say things to that effect. She was so ridiculed by the public, she forced MJ to (Keep it in the closet,) and pretend in public they were just good friends. This is why MJ constantly filled his songs with so many obvious hints. He assumed people would get it, and the secret would be open, and Diana would be forced OUT of the closet!! 

In case you are wondering why all the rumors concerning Diana, its because what they are doing is trying One lie after another to keep Diana from being a threat. 

 These are some of the many Vicious lies told about Diana, by vicious, jealous , people who absolutely HATE that Michael was so deeply in love with her...

Rumors and Lies.....

1. She is Michael's mother

Katherine Jackson is his mother. That rumor was started by a jealous fool who HATED that MJ was in love with Diana, instead of Lisa!

2. She's a whore who slept around..

No she was NOT. She was /is a very sweet lady who massively changed the game for many WOC. She was a Pioneer just like MJ who did amazing things, and will go down in history long after the haters are forgotten .. If anyone slept around it was Lisa, who went on HS to brag about having 2 dozen lovers by her 18th birthday!!

3. She's a perv who groomed him..

She did NOT groom him. He stayed with her only a few months. HE was a precocious child acting grown and trying to peek at HER in the shower (even after getting his butt beat) That's why Diana had to tell his mom he was being inappropriate, and she removed him after only a few months! Di did NOT groom him. He was already in a deep crush with her, that grew stronger and turned to love as he got older....

4. She slept with his father

This LIE makes me the Maddest! She did NOT sleep with his father!!! She and Joe Detested each other, and she AVOIDED Joe as he was a bully used to getting his way.  He ofter referred to Diana as the Supreme Slut just to get a rise out of Michael. Joe was a jerk and Diana could not stand him, and she NEVER had ANY type of sexual relations with him!! 

5. She used him to further her career

More lies. Even today, Diana's concerts are sold out, and standing rm only, and she has a fabulous career! She has awards and Top billboard plaque for female artist. She had made millions of HER OWN money (Unlike LMP, who spent her entire life living off her father's money and prestige) ...

6. She was just playing games with him, and never loved him...

Of course she did. That's why she was so broken hearted after she married Arne.  Bc she wanted MJ. She loved him BACK....

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Simple truth is: Diana absolutely loved him. She was tormented by the media, and publicly pressured to let him go. This is the reason they lied on her so badly. They hated the love between them and many wanted it to be between MJ and Lisa. But Diana was the ONE MJ said all over he wanted. As much as Lmp stans try to claim he loved lisa, But MICHAEL has always said he LIKED Lisa, and hoped they could be friends. I rly don't think he was being completely truthful even there though. Because he dodged Lisa alot, and his "Help" maintained that he would be in a bad mood every time Lisa visited, so much so, they called it a "bad day' when she came by.  He turned Lisa down when she tried to make deals. He turned her down when she offered 9 babies, He ran from her, and complained the media pretended NOT to notice she stalked him. He forced the divorce on Lisa, knowing the marriage was FAKE! because he wanted to be with Diana, and he knew No one else would do it for him...

This is why MJ said in HCW, Just leave us alone!! Please Leave us Alone!! 

Truth is: You CANNOT call yourself a fan and discard what someone says because it does not suit YOUR agenda!! He had the right to love whoever HE chose to love and True Fans should have accepted that...