Did she promise to MARRY MICHAEL JACKSON???

      
I've been studying MJ for a few years now, and have NO reason to lie about him in anyway. Anyone who tells you MJ wanted to BE Diana, or LOOK like her is lying his ass off! MJ complained about having to deal with these types of lies over and over. HE said it was racism, and jealousy. And I think he is right. If he wanted to be or look like di, he had the money to look more like her, than she looks like herself!!!! duh! He wanted to MARRY HER! and he said that many times in various ways. Both Overt, and nebulously.  He was NEVER trying to be Diana's twin!! He was trying to be her husband!!! And any true fan knows that!  His mom said the papers could see the clear love/attraction toward Diana, and they did not like it. She says in their twisted minds something as pure as his love for Di, was not comfortable because she was black (even though he was too) so they made it sound twisted and sick _ just like their sick minds.....

  This is why they began to say he was obsessed because they KNEW he was deeply in love with this woman, and they hated the thought of a black woman being held up as the object of his love/desire (esp. because sooooo many white girls wanted him!)This is why they ignored him all the times he kept saying he loved Di and wanted to marry her. This is why they ignored all the songs (obviously about her) and the Shrine to her, and the vacations the two of them went on and openly shared a suite and BED. They ignored all that because black love is something they NEVER EVER PROMOTE....

This is also what Michael's mom said: 

"“ When Diana Ross was named to play Dorothy, Michael had further incentive to land a role in the movie; he’d been in love with her ever since he and his brothers had been her house guests. “You’re not pretty until you start looking like Diana!” he would tease LaToya and Janet. Michael 84: I love Diana Ross, and I always have....

Michael  1983: (the real me article) WHEN I GET MARRIED, I'LL MOVE TO SWITZERLAND and let me mom have the house here in Encino.....

Marlon Jackson:  Michael was just crazy about Diana Ross! You had to fight him if you came near that woman! He thought he was GOING TO MARRY HER AND MOVE TO SWITZERLAND!!  that's all he talked about!!


Casey Kasum radio show 1984:  Casey: "There's talk that Michael Jackson PLANS TO GET MARRIED AND MOVE TO SWITZERLAND!*, and the rumor is that he wants to marry his *LONGTIME FRIEND DIANA ROSS! I always knew there was more to that friendship than the nonsense she was trying to peddle"... At this point he opened the phone lines and ppl called in (mostly women) saying that MJ and DI had nothing in common, and that there was no way he wanted to marry Di, that he only loved her as a friend and they had nothing in common because they wee 14 years apart. About an hour into the show MICHAEL HIMSELF CALLED IN, and angrily began to tell Casey and his listeners that he and DI had TONS in common, and that age meant nothing!!! He spent about 20+minutes telling the viewers all about how alike he and Diana ross were! It's obvious, he was CONFIRMING The relationship! Go look up the interview and see for yourself....

Ebony, December 1982 Michael turned 24 in August. He says he has finally taken charge of his life and career (“I pay people and I tell them what to do”). There’s a new lady, and he’s as happy as he has ever been. "I am in love!" he gushes.  Michael speaks of renovating his home. “I want it to be real nice because this is where I plan to spend most of my time until  I GET TO GO TO SWITZERAND AND GET MARRIED Married? When?   To Whom??  Could It be the one he calls the 'most important woman in his life?".......


Michael Jackson;  "Diana Ross is everything you could wish for, I love her. I hope she marries me....

“ Of course one of my best friends in the world is Diana Ross. She’s a good friend, a very dear friend. She’s the kind of person I can tell anything to- the most private of secrets! And she tells me her secrets as well. Sometimes I tell her I’m going to marry her. Our relationship goes on forever. — Michael Jackson,


1983 Ebony:

Any black ladies in your life?
Michael: Sure, but you wouldn't take me seriously.
Ebony: Try me. Michael: It's Diana Ross. I love her.
Ebony: Do you mean as a "big sister"?
Michael: No, that's not what I mean. See, I told you that you wouldn't take me seriously. Ebony: You're not saying that you would like to marry Diana Ross, are you?
Michael: Oh yeah, I'm saying that. Ebony: But she's so much older than you. You mean you feel something other than close friendship for her?
Michael: Uh huh. And what does age have to do with it? Look at this way: how old would you be if you didn't even know how old you are?


In the mid 90s (while still married to lisa) Michael wistfully  told Diane Sawyer that HE ALWAYS WANTED TO GO LIVE IN SWITZERLAND  He looked sad and melancholy when he said it. Diane gave him an expectant look like ' well, why don't you guys go live there?' MJ just looked away... Any fan who has studied his life KNOWS exactly why did he did not just go live there with Lisa, or Debbie, or Stephanie, or any other of the women he dated, or married. It's  really simple to figure out. It's because his DREAM was to go there married to his True Love, and that was Diana Earnestine Ross, without her Switzerland was just another place...


In Oct 04, 2004   Michael named and dedicated his newest foundation to Diana Ross. It was named after her saying "Go for your dreams. He named it the Go for your dreams foundation and said it was named after the woman of his  dreams!!!

She always tells me her most private secrets. That’s the kind of relationship we have. It's goes on forever... — Michael Jackson on Diana Ross


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What Diana is/was saying;

“ When I’m with him, I try to give him exactly what he needs - a little peace and the feeling that he is loved and that he can trust you. — Diana Ross (on being with Michael)

Michael was a personal LOVE OF MINE.....

Di's twitter acct is talking about how much she misses him, and is now admitting MJ was her lover!

Di's admit's that she and MJ used to live together when he was in his early 20s..

Diana 2015 (beginning to let the secrets out) My tour is dedicated to the memory of Michael Jackson.  My true love _I love you Michael. — Diana Ross June 2014 ( tour book)

Diana's statements in the 80s she slipped and told ET reporter: "Well the thing is, that Michael hates  to sleep alone!!!
(Now how would she know that, uness she was sleeping with him???)

Also note: a reporter asked her point blank in the 90s if it was true, she and MJ were  much more than friends, because he had it on good authority that they were. She looked smug and answered: " I know ppl wanna know who I'm sleeping with, but I just feel it's none of their business... WTH! Notice, no one asked her that! She HEARD IT THAT WAY , because she WAS sleeping with him!!!

MJ's words:  which constantly  talk about a woman promising to marry him, (FORCING HIM TO PRETEND THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS!!!)  then breaking his heart, and marrying someone else...

"If ppl want to know me or who I am, they should listen to my music, that's the real me right there....
Now what was his music saying.....

BG 'Said you'd be my wife-nothing but big lies
WII ' She promised me forever and a day we'd live as one...
ISB ' She told me she had given me a lifetime of love forever true, but she left me for another man... LG  ' I'll wait for the day when you <HAVE TO SAY I DO> - and I'll smile and say it too...
IJCSLY  You know how I feel, I won't stop until, I hear your voice saying I do.... 

There tons more where he talks about her promise to marry him, forcing him to pretend they were just friends, breaking his heart and marrying someone else..  About 90% of his love and heartbreak songs are about her. And she did promise to marry him, and break his heart, . Although she didn't mean to, In those days, it was just a career killer to marry a man so much younger.. So I urge you to check all this out for yourself and you'll see it's all true. Let me know if you want some viable places to start looking into it.

Why did people ignore MJ when he said he was in love with Diana?

 
Michael was asked about Romantic relationships many times, and time after time, he brought up Diana Ross's name. He talked about loving her, wanting to marry her, and even running away with her.  But he was not believed, often dismissed, and TOLD that she was just a crush!!!

This is incredibly nervy and disrespectful!

This is almost akin to telling someone that they are TOO STUPID to know what THEY want!!



Here is an example of an interview MJ gave to Ebony in 1982
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Ebony (interview with Michael Jackson) * December 1982


Any Black ladies in your life?

"Sure, but you wouldn't take me seriously."

Try me.

It's Diana Ross. I love her."

Do you mean as a "big sister?"

"No, that's not what I mean. See, I told you that you wouldn't take me seriously."

You're not saying you'd like to marry Diana Ross, are you?

"Oh yeah, I'm saying that".

But she's so much older than you. You mean you feel something other than close friendship for her?

"Uh huh. And what does age have to do with it?" ... how age would you be if you didn't know how old you were?


This is what one person answered:

I was thinking that when the interviewer for the Ebony magazine ask Michael whether there was any black women in his life, I think the interviewer meant a black woman in his life ROMANTICALLY and I think Michael knew this which is why he said DIANA ROSS but he THE INTERVIEWER wouldn't take him seriously because no one really associates Diana and Michael together romantically, people has always thought that they had a mother/ son or just good friends relationship, so when Michael mentioned that the black woman in his life was Diana Ross, of course the interviewer wouldn't take him seriously, which is why he/ she said "OH YOU MEAN YOU LOVE HER LIKE A BIG SISTER???" and of course despite Mike saying that he loves her, had feeling for her and wanted to marry her, people really still didn't take him seriously, so you could easily see why it was so easy for Michael and Diana to have a secret relationship behind closed doors, because they knew that not in a million years would people suspect that they were having a romantic relationship together, they knew that they could easily fool people with the MOTHER/ SON relationship image of what people have of them, as you said some people just can't seperate the mentor/protege image they have of them.

I have come across comments from fans (especially MJ fans saying that it's not really the 14 years age difference that bothers them but it is the fact that Diana had known Michael since he was like 9-10 years old, act like a mentor/ mother figure to him, so they find it totally unappropiate and even kind of disgusting that as soon as Michael became a grown man, Diana would embark on a romantic relationship with him, I suppose for some people it's all to do with morals and doing what you think is right or wrong and some people thinks that it is wrong for Diana to have been involved in a relationship with Michael, even though it was obvious that Michael was in love with her, people still think that Diana should have discourage/ turn his advances down anyway.

I really wonder sometimes whether Diana ever regretted in embarking in a romantic relationship with Michael, that maybe she ever felt that what she was doing was right???? any guilt about the fact that she developed feelings for him as well????

I always feels whenever I read the 1982 Ebony interview that Michael was giving an hint that he was having a secret affair with Diana without actually

Here's what someone else said:

I wonder how he felt when rumors about him being creepily obsessed with Diana and doing plastic surgery to look like his idol started spreading in the media? I mean, WHAT a way to completely misinterpret his love for her! Dude goes on and on about wanting to marry her, and THAT is what they came out from it??

Quoting the ex-employee who wrote about Michael's love life in NE, "everything he does is misconstrued, manipulated and taken out of context" so I guess that's why he just gave up doing interviews or revealing anything personal to the public anymore. Poor guy...

I actually feel there are a couple of reasons for this.

1. think many could not see it, because they were jealous and did not WANT to see it.

2. Diana was older, so many instantly put her in the Aunt/big sister category

3. Diana had been calling him her 'baby' for years, so many ppl did not realize her 'baby' had become her BABY! Because of their refusal to see what was right in front of them, it was very easy for MJ and di to flirt shamelessly on camera, hug and kiss, (even on the lips!) and still have ppl convinced they were 'like family!"

Also, I honestly think it bothers some people that Diana is black!!! Meaning that MJ was very much in love with a black woman!  Nevermind that he IS black, they still feel that SHE should not have been the object of his desire because a bow should not be in that position, especially from a coveted man such as himself!!

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Also, I think MJ knowing Di since he was a little kid prevented some people from being able to see that the loving maternal relationship with Diana, had evolved into a full grown ADULT SEXUAL type love for her! Some people regarded that as sick! Which is the reason, Diana insisted on hiding the relationship! Michael wanted desperately to 'go public' he was desperately in love, and wanted it to be acknowledged. Which is why he was leaving so many clues: Such as the following;

 Private sexy picture of Diana in MJ's home

Obvious, and blatant flirting even as a child. look at his face as he gazes longingly at her. It's so obvious that he was smitten even then..

Blatant kissing on the lips (or very near) right in public! In the 2nd picture the photographer was so irritated that Diana kissed MJ dead in the mouth in public, that he would only release the photos of her beginning to pull back! It's very hard to get the actual photo kiss. and btw, in the 2nd photo DIANA is WEARING THE RING MJ BOUGHT HER AS A ENGAGEMENT RING!!  The newspapers (knowing full well it was an engagement ring)  tried to bury all news of that fact!!!

But MJ was making the circuit telling everyone he was in love, talking about going to Switzerland to get married, and talking non stop about how much he loved Diana. He was putting the msg on album cds, in interviews, calling her goddess, and looking at her like she was the most beautiful, precious, incredible woman he'd ever seen, and still the papers chose to act like they didn't notice. Yet when he fake married Lisa (marriage was NOT legal) and then ignored her, and stayed gone, and then had her moved from the home, and broke his neck divorcing her, they STILL tried to pretend Lisa was the love of his life!!!  Putting pictures of them everywhere (most of these Lisa is on record admitting MJ orchestrated as a publicity stunt!) Yet they did everything in their power to pretend Lisa was the LOHL, knowing exactly who really was!

The object of his desire has ALWAYS been Ms Diana Earnestine Ross!